Monthly Archives: March 2011

I Am. I Can. I Do.

Every year a different workout hits the market with new promises that the old promises failed to keep.  Lose 10 pounds in 2 weeks.  Get a six-pack in 6 days. Lift that booty, tone those thighs, have arms like the First Lady.  Promises. Promises. Promises.  But what if someone told you that all you have to do is love and respect the body you have, keep your promises to it and it will return the favor by doing what you want it to do?

Celebrity Fitness Trainer Kacy Duke

Celebrity Fitness Trainer (and my friend) Kacy Duke says that’s all you have to do.  Well, it’s not exactly all you have to do, but it’s a significant part of the deal. Kacy believes in her philosophy so much that she wrote a book –Show It Love – that promotes maintaining an amorous relationship between you and your body.  The popular workout tome helped women (and men) all around the globe love the skin they’re in and craft a new silhouette to adore.

Kacy has followed up Show It Love with a new workout DVD, I Am. I Can. I Do., which takes all the movement principles from the book and puts them into action. Last Thursday night I, along with talented Photographer Leila Jacue, skipped on down to La Pomme in the Flatiron District to help celebrate the release of the soon-to-be smash hit.

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And the Winner Is….

Jane Croger Won These Super Cute Gems!

JANE CROGER!!!!! Congratulations, Jane! You are the winner of the The Radically Fabulous My PeepStakes – the inaugural contest for The Socialite Design. You will receive the lovely Kiini Ibura Jewelry Turquoise & Austrian Crystal Earrings (made especially for this contest), $25 Gift Certificate from Karen’s Body Beautiful and a $15 Gift Certificate good toward a Box of Joy from CakeJoy.  A prize package worth $125!!

Thanks to all who subscribed and entered the sweepstakes.  I hope you had as much fun as I did.  A very very special thank you to my sponsors Melody Burns of Kiini Ibura Jewelry, Karen Tappin of Karen’s Body Beautiful and Kym Rodgers of CakeJoy.  And, a warm ‘thank you’ to Henrietta Koffi of Fort Greene SNAP for conducting the sweepstakes drawing.  I couldn’t have done it without you female entrepreneurs and Brooklyn Trailblazers!

Harold D. Smith

Stay tuned next month for the Radically Fabulous Art Snob Sweepstakes.  One lucky winner will take home this autographed limited edition print by the incredible Harold D. Smith, who currently has a remarkable exhibit at the American Jazz Museum in Kansas City, MO.  Sorry, Jane Croger, you’re not eligible to win again until June.  😉

Until then stay radically fabulous

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Die Free

“I could have become a prostitute and a crackhead or I could have become Cheryl Wills that’s on TV.”

Cheryl Wills

Actor LeVar Burton as "Kunta Kinte"

Kunta Kinte, Kizzy, Chicken George…these names are legendary in the African-American community.

Many of us were too young to understand these complex “characters” and many more were born decades after they marched into homes across America.  For folks old enough to know there seemed to be two sides – those who felt a sense of kinship and those who felt that while slavery may have occurred, Kunta, Kizzy, Chicken George and the events surrounding their lives were mere fabrications of a brilliant mind.  Did it really go down like that?

For the late great Alex Haley it did go down like that. And, Kunta, Kizzy, Chicken George and ‘nem were not “characters “at all, but were branches of his own family tree.  They were, in fact, his Roots.

Ostensibly Haley – though he long ago became an ancestor – has been

Author Alex Haley - Photo Credit: Mickey Adair (1984)

alone in the quest to learn what happened to his people before, during and after the Middle Passage.   It’s taken a while but there’s a new crop of prominent root diggers popping up.  With the creation of as well as TV programs like Who Do You Think You Are? and the PBS miniseries African American Lives a fresh batch of Haleyites are noseying around in the fields of their ancestors.  Who are these renegades, these revolutionaries that dare unearth the truth about their history, which is inextricably Africa and America’s history?  Who are they?

They are those who refuse to sit in the dark any longer. And, luckily for me, I’ve been crossing their lighted paths.

Last month I (re)introduced you to Isaiah Washington, the activist and actor formerly known as “Dr. Preston Burke,” who successfully traced his roots all the way back to Sierra Leone.

Recently I had the immense pleasure to meet NY1 Anchor Cheryl Wills at her booksigning event in Fort Greene, Brooklyn.  Like many New York denizens I’ve watched her eloquently deliver breaking stories and current events just as most newscasters do.  But I discovered, as you soon will, Cheryl is more than a talking head.  She is a ball of fire!  Cheryl and I sat down to converse about her new tome, Die Free: A Heroic Family History. I initially intended to make this a two-parter.  But I changed my mind and decided to give it to you like Cheryl gave it me – straight, no chaser!


TL: What was the impetus, the one event that led to your writing this book?

CW: I was on like a lot of people do.  Didn’t know what I would find.  And Tracee, I put in my last name  – Wills.  I put in the town where my father was born – Haywood County, Tennessee. Up pops the name “Sandy Wills.”  That is such an unusual name for a Black man in the 1860s.  And it keeps coming up – “1870 – Sandy Wills.”  And I’m like, “Who is this?”

United States Colored Troops - USCT

So I start digging and it says, “Sandy Wills – USCT.”  And I went, “Oh my God; he served in the Civil War!”  That’s [USCT] United States Colored Troops. You know you can just spiritually feel when you touch something and you know you’ve touched something special?

So I said,  “I have to hire a genealogist to make sure –to find out if there is a relation.”  Sure enough, Tracee, [the] genealogist comes back and says, “Sandy Wills is your great great great grandfather.”  I almost fainted.  And then he went to the national archives in Washington and got all of his records – that of Sandy and his widow – pulled them up and told me the whole story of a family I never knew.

The short version is Sandy was purchased by Edmond Wills.  That was the first shock to know that I am Cheryl Wills because Edmond bought him when he was 10 years old on an auction block!

TL: Did they say who Edmond Was?

CW: I know all about Edmond.

TL: Of course.


CW: He was a white man who had a family and was living fat off the backs of African slaves as his parents did and as his

Bill of Sale – 1769

grandparents did coming from Virginia.  Came to Tennessee to start a new life.  Some family business, huh?  Buying Africans.

So he purchased my grandpa three generations removed on an auction block and Sandy was removed from his mother – never to see her again – his father, his familiar environment and shuttled to the Wills Plantation in Haywood County, TN.  While he was there, he bonded with 5 boys – James, Richard, Dick, Mack and Andy.  These boys were all 7, 6 years old.  Sandy was the oldest.

[In] 1863 when the slaves were allowed to fight, he rounded up all those younger boys and they all went and fought in the Fourth Heavy Field Artillery in the Civil War.  Only one died (Cheryl later told me that Richard was the lone Wills soldier to lose his life in battle).  My grandpa lived and the revelations that I found were mind-blowing and it defied all the things that you think you know about that era. Tracee, I found something all together different.

For example, when the slaves enlisted in the War the white officers would fill out an enlistment form.  Now remember the slaves were kept illiterate – government imposed illiteracy.  And it would say name, age, occupation, where were you born? And for occupation they would put “slave.”   But for my grandpa, he told them “farmer.”

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Hip. Cool. Free.

There are clear advantages to living in a hip, cool neighborhood – there is always something hip and cool to do.  Tuesday night I took full advantage of the coolness when I dropped by the super cute Brooklyn Stone Boutique in Fort Greene, Brooklyn for NY1 Anchor Cheryl Wills’ booksigning soiree.   First let’s talk about the where. Did I say super cute?!  Opened last September, Brooklyn Stone Boutique features hot, trendy, fashions that are mostly imported from the UK and Australia.

Boutique Owner Regina Stone & Tracee Loran

Wearing MusicaWear Rockstar Zippered Shirt & Cropped Jacket from Brooklyn Stone Boutique

Store owner Regina Stone never orders more than seven pieces of any single clothing item and typically carries a mere three. And many of the super baaad pumps are custom made (I’m in love with the black & white numbers with the red bow accent on the heel), which means often only one pair of specialty

footwear is available.  So what’s the big deal about that, Tracee? The chances of attending a party and spotting 3 chix wearing your “limited edition” dress are very low.  Don’t you hate when that happens?  You spend the evening trying to pretend like you don’t see each other or worst yet, you have to leave early due to an “emergency.” Very few items at BSB are over $200 & you can find many things for under a hundred bucks, so you can look like brand new money without spending a lot of it. Needless to say  Brooklyn Stone Boutique is definitely the place to get your fashion fix on. And it’s the new hot spot for radically fabulous events.

News Anchor/Author Cheryl Wills

In walks Award-winning NY1 Anchor Cheryl Wills who held a booksigning for her new powerful tomeDie Free: A Heroic Family History, which chronicles the story of Wills’ great great great grandfather Sandy Wills, a runaway slave and fearless Civil War veteran. Die Free also explores the life of Wills’ dad, Clarence Douglas Wills, the first black firefighter to desegregate Engine 1 Ladder 24 in New York City.  He tragically died in a motorcycle accident on the Williamsburg Bridge in Brooklyn at the tender age of 38, and according to Cheryl, lived a very enigmatic & reckless life during his last few years on this planet.

Tracee Loran & Cheryl Wills

Cheryl is one of the most dynamic people I’ve met in New York City. Hands down! We had an engaging conversation about history, slavery, and knowing your roots.  The full interview will be available next week, but here’s a juicy sample:

I asked Cheryl what was the impetus, the one event that led her to write Die Free.  This excerpt is extracted from her response.

CW: The short version is Sandy was purchased by Edmond Wills.  That was the first shock to know that I am Cheryl Wills because Edmond bought him when he was 10-years old on an auction block.

TL: Did they say who Edmond Was?

CW: I know all about Edmond.

TL: Of course.

CW: He was a white man who had a family and was living fat off the backs of African slaves as his parents did and as his grandparents did coming from Virginia.  Came to Tennessee to start a new life.  Some family business, huh?  Buying Africans.


Yes, Cheryl is that honest and forthright; she’s a powerful speaker with an inspiring ball of fire in her belly ignited by learning the truth about her family.  You’ll get the full version next week; believe me regardless of race, creed, or religious affiliation you will be moved by her story. If you just can’t wait to hear it from me, you can stop by St. Philips Church in Bed Stuy, Brooklyn this Sunday, March 20 at 11:00 am. Cheryl’s reading excerpts from Die Free: A Heroic Family History.  This won’t be an ordinary book-reading as she’ll be accompanied by a full gospel choir.  I can’t wait! (Click on flyer for more details.)


MUA Karen Swaby & Tracee Loran

You know I never pull off these events solo; beside every socialite is a talented crew of artists. Since its Woman’s History Month its befitting that the ladies represented. Fresh off of a snazzy fashion spectacular for PR Whiz Lawrence Blake Harvey, Makeup Artist Karen Swaby carved out some time to paint beautiful hues on my face.  Dame Swaby has skills because she convinced me to go with smoky eyes for a more edgy look and pink lips. Yes, pink lips!  Designer Raquel Alfred of MusicaWear provided me with her really adorable signature item – the RockStar Zippered T-Shirt.  News flash – it’s  pink! In the immortal words of Whitney Houston, me and pink “are not friends!” These sly foxes must have slipped a mickey in my Shirley Temple! 😉

Documenting the event was gifted Photographer Tamara Edme of Urban Exposure Images. Miss Tamara is all about unique angles and interesting shots. She often uses graffiti’d walls & other urban backdrops to capture subjects in their purest, most uninhibited form. Love it!

This event was definitely fun and enlightening. I look forward to sharing the full Cheryl Wills interview & reports of what I hear is an incredible book-reading presentation.

Time is running out on the Radically Fabulous My PeepStakes; don’t forget to enter to win a prize package worth $125!  It is the easiest open book quiz you’ll ever take! 🙂

Until the next time, stay radically fabulous….

Anchor/Author Cheryl Wills & Sports Agent Martin Gover

Tracee Loran & Sports Agent Martin Gover

Tracee Loran & Cheryl Wills Share a Laugh

Martin Gover & McArthur St. Juste

McArthur St. Juste & Cheryl Wills


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The Radically Fabulous My PeepStakes

**The contest has ended.  Congrats to Jane Croger! Check out the latest giveaways where you can win a radically fabulous autographed art print or a radically fabulous workout DVD from a celebrity trainer!

Turquoise & Austrian Crystal Earrings

The Radically Fabulous My PeepStakes is sponsored by a remarkable trio of female entrepreneurs – Melody Burns of Kiini Ibura Jewelry, Karen Tappin of Karen’s Body Beautiful and Kym Rodgers of CakeJoy.  Because of these super classy chix one lucky person will win a pair of Kiini Ibura Smooth Turquoise & Austrian crystal earrings (specially designed for this contest); a $25 Karen’s Body Beautiful Gift Certificate*  & a $15  Cake Joy Gift Certificate*.  A prize package worth $125!

Entry is FREE. But in order to qualify you must be a SUBSCRIBER of The Socialite Design. Have no fear; if you’re not a subscriber yet there is still time for you to join the cool kids and enter to win! Contest runs from March 10, 2011 until March 20, 2011.   Subscribing is free and easy.  Just look in the upper right hand corner, type your email address in the designated slot & click “Sign me up!”  Then check your inbox (and spam) for the confirmation email. Once you confirm, you’re in and on your way to exciting adventures and possibly winning a prize package worth $125!

For a chance to win the $125 prize package, you must subscribe and correctly answer all of the following questions by March 20, 2011 (HINT: The answers can be found on The Socialite Design and sponsoring websites by clicking on the underlined key words in each question. It’s the easiest open book test ever!) Use the contact form at the end of this post to transmit the correct answers to me. Persons scoring a Perfect 12 will be entered into a drawing.  Only one person can win! Good luck!

The Radically Fabulous My PeepStakes Pop Quiz

  1. What specific project inspired me to create The Socialite Design?
  2. What was my debut event?
  3. What is my favorite DJ Spinna record?
  4. What is a betel nut beauty?
  5. At what age did MacDella Cooper flee her native Liberia?
  6. Which young  burgeoning star shares my taste in jewelry?
  7. Isaiah Washington recently became a citizen of what country?
  8. Which TWO (2) designers provided my gorgeous L’Africana Night wardrobe (gown & accessories)?
  9. Which celebrity appeared on The Oprah Winfrey Show wearing Kiini Ibura Jewelry?
  10. What is the name of the promotion that Karen’s Body Beautiful runs every Friday.
  11. What time does CakeJoy close on Sundays?
  12. What is the date of the next Fort Greene Snap WordPress Websites Class?


*Gift certificates must be redeemed in the store.  If you are an out-of-towner, you’ll just have to take a trip to the East Coast or donate the certificates to a deserving New Yorker.  😉  Earrings will be shipped to the winner’s address; U.S. only.

1) In order to qualify to win you must become a subscriber of The Socialite Design by March 20,2011 at 11:59pm est.

2) Only one entry per person.

3) It’s my game and my rules, so I reserve the right to cancel the contest at any time or extend entry dates. Yep, just like on the playground.

4) If you gave birth to me or are married to the person who gave birth to me or gave birth to the person who gave birth to me, you aren’t eligible to win. Sorry Mom & Grandma, but in the off chance that you happen to win I don’t want any “No fair; that’s yo mama drama!”

5) Contest ends March 20, 2011 at 11:59pm est.

6) The drawing will be conducted by Fort Greene SNAP on or around Tuesday, March 22, 2011.  The winner will be announced on The Socialite Design soon after the name is drawn.  Since you must be a subscriber to claim the prize that means you’ll be notified via email immediately after I post the name of the lucky person!



Nestled in Fort Greene, Brooklyn Kiini Ibura Jewelry is the official sponsor of The Socialite Design.  It has become the go-to boutique for unique, handcrafted accessories.   Designer Melody Burns uses precious and semi-precious stones like Ghanian glass, fresh water pearls, African amber and Austrian crystal to create dazzling one-of-a-kind pieces that can complement a gorgeous Red Carpet gown or glam up a plain white tee.

Melody’s exquisite creations have been featured in several prominent publications like The New York Times, ELLE, and Essence magazines. And have been worn by numerous celebrities such as Ruby Dee, Jill Scott, Angie Stone, Camille Cosby, Sanaa Lathan, Whoopi Goldberg and socialites like yours truly!  😉

Saunter down to the 3rd Avenue YWCA to catch Kiini Ibura Jewelry along with 20 radically fabulous designers at the The Diaspora Artmart on March 26 and April 16 from 12 – 7. There will be live entertainment and plenty of hot fashions!


Founded in 2004 by Karen Tappin, Karen’s Body Beautiful is a Brooklyn-based luxury beauty line and spa created to provide the purest, highest quality of all-natural products for the body. The brand boasts an extensive offering of natural, luxuriant, emollient-rich body products created for hair, body, face and bath time.

Comprised of all-natural ingredients such as shea butter, jojoba oil, aloe butter, olive oil and apricot kernel oil, the Karen’s Body Beautiful line is offered in 13 amazing fragrances and provides the very best in all-over body care for women, men and children. Karen’s Body Beautiful promotes the belief that the maintenance and celebration of the body translates to the elevation of the spirit.


CakeJoy is an upscale dessert lounge in Fort Greene Brooklyn that offers a wide variety of exotic cakes and cupcakes using both imported and domestic fruit and liqueurs.

Specialty treats like Mojito Cupcakes, Champagne Cupcakes and Piña Colada Cupcakes and our famous Red Velvet Cheesecake have become fan favorites.  In addition to these blissful desserts, CakeJoy offers Carrot Cake Cheesecake, Brownie Cheesecake, “The Cookie” and bite-size brownies that melt in your mouth.


The Fort Greene SNAP’s mission is to provide low and moderate income residents, in and near Fort Greene, access to gainful employment, further education, and quality health care by offering programs in technology, entrepreneurship and life skills.




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